ALDER & ROWEFamily Law

Our process

What to expect, step by step.

Every matter is different, so the exact path depends on your circumstances. This is the general shape of how a conversation with a firm like this one unfolds.

  1. 01

    Making an initial inquiry

    You send a short overview through the contact form or by phone. It does not need detail. Please do not send documents or sensitive information at this stage, and remember that an inquiry does not create an attorney-client relationship.

  2. 02

    Preparing for a consultation

    A little preparation makes the first conversation more useful. The checklist below shows what is worth gathering, none of it required.

  3. 03

    Discussing your circumstances

    You describe what is happening and what you are worried about. A good first conversation is mostly listening, with questions to understand the facts and what matters most to you.

  4. 04

    Understanding potential approaches

    The issues are explained in plain language: what the law generally says, what options exist, which involve a court and which do not, and what each might involve. No outcome is promised.

  5. 05

    Engagement and the decision to proceed

    If the firm can help and both sides want to go ahead, the arrangement is set out in writing, including fees and scope. You can also decide not to proceed, with no obligation.

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Before your consultation

A short preparation checklist

  • Write down your main questions.

  • Note important dates and any immediate concerns.

  • Gather relevant documents if appropriate, such as recent financial statements.

  • Avoid sending highly sensitive documents through a general inquiry form.

Common questions

Request a Consultation

A real firm would tell you when you schedule whether the first meeting is paid and how. This concept does not set fees, so none apply here.

That is common. Many people use a first conversation to understand their options and take time to decide. Understanding where you stand has value on its own.

Please do not. The form is for a brief overview only. A real firm would give you a secure way to send documents once an engagement is in place.

This demonstration site does not send your inquiry anywhere, so there is no reply to wait for. A real firm should tell you honestly how soon to expect one.

Next step

You do not have to figure out every next step alone.

Start with a conversation about your circumstances, your concerns and the guidance you need.

(704) 555-0148 is a demonstration number. It does not ring a real office.

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